Have you ever looked at a manger scene and noticed how sometimes the animals are tucked away in the back? or maybe not even facing the newborn King? I don't understand why. They were just as important to Baby Jesus as the shepherds and wise men. I honestly believe that they rejoiced with the angels when He was born.
What about the fact that they remind us that Jesus was born in a lowly manger when He could have been born in a palace? Jesus meets us where we are at. He doesn't dangle a Krispy Kreme doughnut in our faces to follow him to his palace before revealing the good news. We receive blessings and comfort in places we might not think he may be. I'm sure that cattle stall stunk like our sins do, but God chose that path to reveal what He is willing to do to gain our trust in Him.
Those farm animals knew who was taking up residence in their space. I'm sure they comforted Mary while she gave birth in a place that wasn't exactly sanitary. My understanding is it wasn't very cold in Bethlehem, but those animals would have provided warmth if they had to. They probably snuck in a lick to show compassion.
What about the donkey that got them there? Mary couldn't have walked that distance. He was a part of the special delivery. Carrying Mary and The King of Kings with gentleness was his purpose and he deserves a view of that sweet baby. A donkey brought Him to His birthplace and carried Him in His last days before dying on the cross for our sins.
What about your animals? If they were in Bethlehem around that manger what do you think they would be doing?
Merry Christmas,
Manda
Sunday, December 9, 2012
Sunday, September 9, 2012
Coming out of the funk
I've had to take some time to myself here recently. Nothing against anyone just had too much going on and flowing through my brain. I would seriously go to work and come home and that would be about it. I kinda went back into my shell. Some days I didn't want to deal with people, others I didn't want to be in other people's way, and often times I didn't want to drive.
Not want to drive? You may ask. I have seen so many people being distracted while driving down the road and 99% of the circumstances they can control. More than twice, vehicles crossed over the yellow line into my lane for long enough for me to notice and freak out. I'm tired of feeling like I need to wear an armor just to drive my car. A car that I just bought because someone crossed that yellow line and hit me head on. I just found out a couple months ago that the man who hit me was drunk, almost 3 times the legal limit drunk. I triple dog dare someone to mess up what is left of my confidence on the road, sanity and car. The first two are very lacking right now and I don't know how to put into words how I feel. I just want to crawl in my own little world and forget but I can't.
Thank you to everyone who has helped me in some way the past few weeks. It has helped me restore. I appreciate any prayers and love you send my direction. It has proven to be an emotional road.
Manda
Not want to drive? You may ask. I have seen so many people being distracted while driving down the road and 99% of the circumstances they can control. More than twice, vehicles crossed over the yellow line into my lane for long enough for me to notice and freak out. I'm tired of feeling like I need to wear an armor just to drive my car. A car that I just bought because someone crossed that yellow line and hit me head on. I just found out a couple months ago that the man who hit me was drunk, almost 3 times the legal limit drunk. I triple dog dare someone to mess up what is left of my confidence on the road, sanity and car. The first two are very lacking right now and I don't know how to put into words how I feel. I just want to crawl in my own little world and forget but I can't.
Thank you to everyone who has helped me in some way the past few weeks. It has helped me restore. I appreciate any prayers and love you send my direction. It has proven to be an emotional road.
Manda
Tuesday, June 19, 2012
7 months tomorrow
Today has not been that good mentally. I've been wanting to get away but even looking at hotels for one night at the beach has been overwhelming. It is hard when Wilmington is has the most affordable beaches near it. I got really anxious (weird breathing included) and just had my own little meltdown but a call from a great friend has slowed my mind down. Next time I will be willing to take the "Chesson" approach and just get in the car and go with no planning and research. I'm getting out of this house today and that will help.
It's a good thing I have this week off.
~Manda
It's a good thing I have this week off.
~Manda
Sunday, June 17, 2012
A Quarter Million Girl Scouts and a Musical
This past week has been busy and proof that I needed time off from my full time job. Luckily I had put in for vacation many months ago for this coming up week and project Manda winding down and forgetting about work for a while can happen. I have even set my phone to not let me know when there are emails waiting for me. I'm sure my sanity is already thanking me. I think I might escape for a couple days to prevent myself from looking at a computer.
Last weekend was amazing with 250,000 fellow Girl Scouts on the National Mall in DC. It was during a heat wave but we knew when to head to a museum to cool off. It was so much fun hanging out with Bonnie and doing as we pleased with no definite time schedule. Quick question: Who has ever wanted to wait two hours for a table at a restaurant? I never thought I would but Hard Rock Cafe, Washington, D.C. completely changed that! The place was packed with Girl Scouts and one school group. When a dancing song came on (Cupid Shuffle, etc.) the waiters would grab girls waiting for tables and dance with them. It was actually more of an after party. Every hour they wished Girl Scouts a Happy 100th Birthday in person and in video from other locations. It was a good day to be a Girl Scout. I really don't think there's a bad day to be a Girl Scout but I'm sure you get the point. Girl Scouts literally took over DC.
Tech week for my first time since 2006 began Monday. It has gone very well and the actors are really good people. Not a night goes by that the costume crew does not receive thanks from someone. We have also got many awesome comments about the costumes from audience members. I feel so blessed. Katrina totally rocked her first time costuming a show. If you missed "Kilroy Was Here" by Kernersville Little Theatre this weekend then you have one more to take advantage of the opportunity. It is very patriotic and full of very talented people. It is a musical so be prepared for song and dance!
I haven't seen my Chess in over a week. I'm going through withdrawls and miss him terribly. I've got to see my boyfriend in the near future. Grrr! to long distance relationships!
~Manda
Last weekend was amazing with 250,000 fellow Girl Scouts on the National Mall in DC. It was during a heat wave but we knew when to head to a museum to cool off. It was so much fun hanging out with Bonnie and doing as we pleased with no definite time schedule. Quick question: Who has ever wanted to wait two hours for a table at a restaurant? I never thought I would but Hard Rock Cafe, Washington, D.C. completely changed that! The place was packed with Girl Scouts and one school group. When a dancing song came on (Cupid Shuffle, etc.) the waiters would grab girls waiting for tables and dance with them. It was actually more of an after party. Every hour they wished Girl Scouts a Happy 100th Birthday in person and in video from other locations. It was a good day to be a Girl Scout. I really don't think there's a bad day to be a Girl Scout but I'm sure you get the point. Girl Scouts literally took over DC.
Tech week for my first time since 2006 began Monday. It has gone very well and the actors are really good people. Not a night goes by that the costume crew does not receive thanks from someone. We have also got many awesome comments about the costumes from audience members. I feel so blessed. Katrina totally rocked her first time costuming a show. If you missed "Kilroy Was Here" by Kernersville Little Theatre this weekend then you have one more to take advantage of the opportunity. It is very patriotic and full of very talented people. It is a musical so be prepared for song and dance!
I haven't seen my Chess in over a week. I'm going through withdrawls and miss him terribly. I've got to see my boyfriend in the near future. Grrr! to long distance relationships!
~Manda
Wednesday, May 23, 2012
Did I skip something?
It's the almost the end of May and I failed to write about April. Oh well, it's been a busy couple of months. I've attended 3 weddings in the last month so please give me a break. While I'm at it, here are some pictures of the couples celebrated this month! Congratulations!
Liz and Corbett - April 5th
I have thought heavily about blogging more often. My life is just too funny to not share.
Last weekend proved my insanity. It all started Thursday after work when Bonnie asked me in the parking lot if I wanted to ride with her to Concord Mills for a book signing. My response: "Sure! I look pretty today. Why not?!" Chess wasn't coming over so I was free to do as I please. The author we met and listened to her read a portion of her book is Jenny Lawson, The Bloggess. She is most known for her blog entry "And that's why you should learn to pick your battles", featuring Beyonce, the giant metal chicken. We definitely had a wonderful time and finding Nike high tops next to Bonnie's car when leaving was just a small fraction of the fun. On the way home, I met a point in exhaustion when I am just right out looney. I know Bonnie is questioning travelling with me to DC for Rock the Mall. Of course my phone rings when I'm not my normal self and to top it off my battery was dead and I didn't have a charger. When I phone my mother Robin back (please note: when my mom calls and leaves a voicemail she starts out with "Hey Amanda! It's your mother Robin" as if I don't know my mother's voice after 28 years and there is no such thing as caller i.d. It's a running joke between Vica and I), I say make it quick my phone is going dead. When she proceeds to list all the pictures she wants of my cousin going to prom, I promise her I will make sure I have batteries for the car. Yes, you read right, the car. My car takes pictures now. Did you know that? I didn't! Just Kidding! She then proceeds to ask if I am drunk. (FYI: I was not). After Mom hangs up, Chesson calls and I explain to him we are returning from an impromptu trip to Concord Mills. In telling him about Beyonce, I realized I have proven to him that I am even crazier than he already thinks I am. It's okay because he still loves me, no matter what. He even told me so. :)
Friday was exciting. I spent all day helping Taima, my tomboy cousin, get ready for the prom. She was gorgeous and her date froze with his mouth hanging open when he first saw her. Here is a picture of her and her date. Aren't they cute?!?! We get to celebrate his graduation this weekend!
Liz and Corbett - April 5th
April and Brad - April 22nd
Karla and Wes - May 5th
I have thought heavily about blogging more often. My life is just too funny to not share.
Last weekend proved my insanity. It all started Thursday after work when Bonnie asked me in the parking lot if I wanted to ride with her to Concord Mills for a book signing. My response: "Sure! I look pretty today. Why not?!" Chess wasn't coming over so I was free to do as I please. The author we met and listened to her read a portion of her book is Jenny Lawson, The Bloggess. She is most known for her blog entry "And that's why you should learn to pick your battles", featuring Beyonce, the giant metal chicken. We definitely had a wonderful time and finding Nike high tops next to Bonnie's car when leaving was just a small fraction of the fun. On the way home, I met a point in exhaustion when I am just right out looney. I know Bonnie is questioning travelling with me to DC for Rock the Mall. Of course my phone rings when I'm not my normal self and to top it off my battery was dead and I didn't have a charger. When I phone my mother Robin back (please note: when my mom calls and leaves a voicemail she starts out with "Hey Amanda! It's your mother Robin" as if I don't know my mother's voice after 28 years and there is no such thing as caller i.d. It's a running joke between Vica and I), I say make it quick my phone is going dead. When she proceeds to list all the pictures she wants of my cousin going to prom, I promise her I will make sure I have batteries for the car. Yes, you read right, the car. My car takes pictures now. Did you know that? I didn't! Just Kidding! She then proceeds to ask if I am drunk. (FYI: I was not). After Mom hangs up, Chesson calls and I explain to him we are returning from an impromptu trip to Concord Mills. In telling him about Beyonce, I realized I have proven to him that I am even crazier than he already thinks I am. It's okay because he still loves me, no matter what. He even told me so. :)
Friday was exciting. I spent all day helping Taima, my tomboy cousin, get ready for the prom. She was gorgeous and her date froze with his mouth hanging open when he first saw her. Here is a picture of her and her date. Aren't they cute?!?! We get to celebrate his graduation this weekend!
Saturday began with indicisiveness about the gym. Whether or not to shower there to save time and risk being labeled the bag lady or risk being late to the Thirty-one Party that started at one. My facebook status that day sums it up best: "oh, just for your pleasure, fyi: it is Amanda constantly changing her mind day. I will keep true to promises made to others but all decisions I make for my personal day may be changed in a matter of seconds. For example: I thought I would save time by going ahead and showering at the gym. After much packing, and re-packing, I decided against it. The decision was based on the fact I couldn't fit all tools necessary into my gym bag and was considering carrying two. Then the thought ran into my head that I didn't want to be classified as the bag lady at a fitness center that likes neon lights and bright colors on the walls." Not long after posting I decided to just go with it. I hop in the car and travel about a half mile before I realize I didn't have my license or anything. I turned around to come home and just go ahead and shower so I wouldn't risk being too late for the Thirty-One Party at one. I'm going to thank Bonnie for reminding me about this event at around 11 AM that morning stating the party is at two. I'm going to give double props to Chris for allowing me in her home at 1:15 when her party did not start until two when I somehow had it in my head it started at one. Congrats to me for accidentally overbooking myself and scheduling to see Ms. Cumbie to deliver her Avon at 2:30. It all turned out well though and I wouldn't trade my extra time with these people for the world. I was on time for Ashley C's cookout to celebrate.... uh.... friends and fellowship!
In the middle of all this I got my doctor bill from the ear infection visit to realize I had been billed $15 for something involving oxygen. I was instantly confused because I was not put on oxygen and why would I need oxygen for an ear infection?!?! Come to find out they charged me to put that thing on your finger to find out your oxygen saturation that they don't necessarilly need to do unless your are having chest pains or problems breathing! I am so thankful to know folks who work in the medical field. Now everyone mentions oxygen when I am around them. It's kinda funny.
I best leave you before I bore you. I may have already. Enjoy the rest of your week!
~ Manda
Monday, March 19, 2012
Whoa! Big Surprise!
It is one of those nights where I shut down the computer then get the urge to blog. Thank you to my computer for being so flexible!
The month of March has been more than busy with celebrating 100 years of Girl Scouting. I think I've consumed more cake than should ever be allowed. I have finally got around to vacuuming my apartment, getting kitty litter for my sweet Luna Cat, washing a couple loads of clothes, a small amount of grocery shopping, and an enormous amount of sewing. March = Sacrficies.
Saturday was Annual Meeting and proof that a huge amount of work is paying off. I knew I was getting my 20 year membership numeral guard but boy was I suprised when they announced my name as recipient of the Girl Scout Appreciation Pin. You know how people react when they win the lottery or told they have won a trip to Disney world with all expenses paid? I'm sure mine was right up there in those two categories. Maybe the reactions during the revealing of an Extreme Home Makeover house better fits what I did. I had to cover my mouth to keep all outbursts inside, was crying tears of joy, shaking like a crazy person, and bent over several times to try to contain myself even more. I was so shocked and overwhelmed that I was hungry when I calmed down. Good thing I had breakfast along with some coffee, cake and cookies or I would have passed out! Some people said that I almost had them in tears. I would have cried seeing someone reacting the way I did. I'm still having to pinch myself. A co-worker nominated me and got recommendation letters from others. This award is approved by the board and is nationally recognized in the Girl Scout world. Tons of hugs and congratulations were and still are being given. Thank you to everyone that was involved in the nomination process and/or congratulated me with words and hugs. I know God got me there, I couldn't have done it on my own.
I have been blessed. I get reminded everyday and sometimes in ways that are completely shocking.
~ Manda
The month of March has been more than busy with celebrating 100 years of Girl Scouting. I think I've consumed more cake than should ever be allowed. I have finally got around to vacuuming my apartment, getting kitty litter for my sweet Luna Cat, washing a couple loads of clothes, a small amount of grocery shopping, and an enormous amount of sewing. March = Sacrficies.
Saturday was Annual Meeting and proof that a huge amount of work is paying off. I knew I was getting my 20 year membership numeral guard but boy was I suprised when they announced my name as recipient of the Girl Scout Appreciation Pin. You know how people react when they win the lottery or told they have won a trip to Disney world with all expenses paid? I'm sure mine was right up there in those two categories. Maybe the reactions during the revealing of an Extreme Home Makeover house better fits what I did. I had to cover my mouth to keep all outbursts inside, was crying tears of joy, shaking like a crazy person, and bent over several times to try to contain myself even more. I was so shocked and overwhelmed that I was hungry when I calmed down. Good thing I had breakfast along with some coffee, cake and cookies or I would have passed out! Some people said that I almost had them in tears. I would have cried seeing someone reacting the way I did. I'm still having to pinch myself. A co-worker nominated me and got recommendation letters from others. This award is approved by the board and is nationally recognized in the Girl Scout world. Tons of hugs and congratulations were and still are being given. Thank you to everyone that was involved in the nomination process and/or congratulated me with words and hugs. I know God got me there, I couldn't have done it on my own.
I have been blessed. I get reminded everyday and sometimes in ways that are completely shocking.
~ Manda
Saturday, February 4, 2012
Strategically Placing Myself
January was probably the longest but most productive month in quite some time. I may have overworked myself a little bit but the outcomes have been very rewarding. I had to take two sick days this week because of an overwhelming sinus infection (I won't go into details) but thinks are looking brighter on the health front. My IT duties at work are expanding and I have taken on the task of being part of the Strategic Learning team to determine what direction the council should go. I am so honored and humbled to be among community leaders, volunteers, and fellow staff members that have a focus to make an already great thing better and more accessible to all girls. I feel like the founding fathers who sat for hours in the Pennsylvania State House (a.k.a. Independence Hall) that lacked air-conditioned in the heat of the summer. The difference is we are meeting in a church, in a central location, in the middle of winter, where keeping the doors shut of the meeting room is essential to keep warm air in, and we can let everyone know what we are up to because this is far from committing treason. I have learned so much about the council, the business world, others in this great 40 county area, and myself. We have no direction to go other than up and this council can do it in style.
Little Miss Freshman, Taima Doodle, has been asked to prom by Mr. Seth and she was unsure until she chatted with me about it. Now she is on board and I will soon be shopping with her and Mom to find a pretty yellow dress. If we can't find a yellow dress to her liking I will make her one, just like my Mom and I made my junior prom dress. I am so excited for her. She is going to have so much fun.
Wow! I just realized that Chesson and I have been together 1 year and 6 months! We have been through some crazy things but it has made us stronger and more in love with each other. I now know how he reacts in situations and how well he takes care of me, even when I'm cranky and not quite myself.
Soon I will be busying myself with sewing for two weddings in two months and possibly a prom dress. I just got business cards to help promote the fact that I can sew and make fun things with fabric. If you have not liked James 1:17 Creations and Alterations on Facebook take a look, click the "like" button, and spread the word! My most current creation with fabric is a skid proof mat and coasters for the console of my car. I will probably be posting pictures on the facebook page soon.
I finally got to hold the newest member of my NE Tennesse family (college friends that are so important to me). Mr. Zackary and I had the best time hanging out with his mommy (Tiffany) and babbling about how well Claire the Great Dane takes care of him. Visiting that area is always a treat. I got to spend a lot of time with people I care about and love so much.
Now that I've updated you, you can continue with your regular programming. Hopefully this hasn't been as disruptive as a test of the emergency alert system.
Manda
Little Miss Freshman, Taima Doodle, has been asked to prom by Mr. Seth and she was unsure until she chatted with me about it. Now she is on board and I will soon be shopping with her and Mom to find a pretty yellow dress. If we can't find a yellow dress to her liking I will make her one, just like my Mom and I made my junior prom dress. I am so excited for her. She is going to have so much fun.
Wow! I just realized that Chesson and I have been together 1 year and 6 months! We have been through some crazy things but it has made us stronger and more in love with each other. I now know how he reacts in situations and how well he takes care of me, even when I'm cranky and not quite myself.
Soon I will be busying myself with sewing for two weddings in two months and possibly a prom dress. I just got business cards to help promote the fact that I can sew and make fun things with fabric. If you have not liked James 1:17 Creations and Alterations on Facebook take a look, click the "like" button, and spread the word! My most current creation with fabric is a skid proof mat and coasters for the console of my car. I will probably be posting pictures on the facebook page soon.
I finally got to hold the newest member of my NE Tennesse family (college friends that are so important to me). Mr. Zackary and I had the best time hanging out with his mommy (Tiffany) and babbling about how well Claire the Great Dane takes care of him. Visiting that area is always a treat. I got to spend a lot of time with people I care about and love so much.
Now that I've updated you, you can continue with your regular programming. Hopefully this hasn't been as disruptive as a test of the emergency alert system.
Manda
Monday, January 9, 2012
More than Newsworthy
My life has always been unique. I know God knows what he is doing and has His purpose for everything that happens in the universe. I never knew how far God would go to prove to me how He takes care of us. In fact, I didn't think He would go as far as placing me in a time and place where things will happen that forever shape how I think, feel and live.
November 20th, 2011 is a day I will never forget. Around 3:15 PM, I was involved in a tragic car accident. In the 24 hours before I was destressing in Carolina Beach, Kure Beach and Wilmington with the guy that willingly puts up with me when I am at my worst and best and has officially become my hero. We both walked away with only a few scrapes and heavy bruising/contusions but now forever have imprinted in our minds those words, "There's no pulse." The other car was a 1955 Morgan convertible with no seat belts and I'm pretty sure the doors were removed. The driver died on impact, the gloves from attending to him landed in the passenger side floor board of my 2008 Kia Spectra. His passenger was rushed to the hospital with critical injuries (brain bleeding, etc.) and, as far as I know, now improving. God has a plan. If it wasn't for Him, seat belts and airbags my boyfriend and I would not be alive. It is beyond my understanding why that man crossed the yellow line and hit me head on. Was he intoxicated like the police report likes to suspect or did his sugar drop or heart decide to stop? All I know is there was no reaction time and it was meant to be. My spectra and his morgan were the only two vehicles on the road and God has given me that peace, that is how I know.
Every morning for about 5 weeks I woke up thinking about it and shocked that I am still alive. I found myself pinching myself throughout the day for 2 weeks because I couldn't believe it. I thought I was in a movie that I could just turn off but it was all real. The second day after the accident I woke up in a panic from pain and scared to death because I could barely move. My stomach still has some sore spots and there are scars that will be there for a while. Mentally, I won't be the same.
"Life is but a vapor" is a phrase I have heard and believed all my life. Now I know even more about its truth and how lucky I am. I am more appreciative, easy going and loving than I have been in quite some time. I also surround myself with family and friends more often.
Getting behind the wheel for the first time was overwhelming. I hated every inch of the Toyota Camry that was the rental car. I didn't want to say good-bye to my Kia Spectra. She was my first big girl car. I made the payments, took care of her and loved her. Many memories were made in my now totalled spectra. She died protecting me and my love, the media even covered how well she responded. I requested my license plate to be mailed to me and balled when I received it. I was blessed with an amazing car salesman at Carolina Kia. He lovingly hung in there with me. He tried to show me a Spectra and I warned him. I just stood beside of it and cried. He asked if I ever thought about a new car and got me into a brand new Forte. I love it but there is still that soft spot missing my Spectra. I will never forget her. I hope that with a little help from a friend that I will eventually climb back into one (just to ride) with few tears.
There are more blessings that come out of this "more than newsworthy" event that will help me get things a little more on track. I never suspected making the papers this way but I am alive to say how important airbags and seat belts are and, even more importantly, how well the Father takes care of us whether we think so at the time or not. I am God's girl and He has great plans for my life.
Thank you for reading. This is the first time I have put a majority of my feelings about this in writing. I cried several times while writing this but I know it is necessary to move on.
Be safe, buckle up, love your neighbors, friends and family. I love all of you.
~ Manda
A couple articles from the accident:
http://www.wwaytv3.com/2011/11/21/man-dies-after-crashing-classic-car-without-seat-belts
http://www.wect.com/story/16086552/traffic-fatality-at-carolina-beach-road-and-3rd-street
November 20th, 2011 is a day I will never forget. Around 3:15 PM, I was involved in a tragic car accident. In the 24 hours before I was destressing in Carolina Beach, Kure Beach and Wilmington with the guy that willingly puts up with me when I am at my worst and best and has officially become my hero. We both walked away with only a few scrapes and heavy bruising/contusions but now forever have imprinted in our minds those words, "There's no pulse." The other car was a 1955 Morgan convertible with no seat belts and I'm pretty sure the doors were removed. The driver died on impact, the gloves from attending to him landed in the passenger side floor board of my 2008 Kia Spectra. His passenger was rushed to the hospital with critical injuries (brain bleeding, etc.) and, as far as I know, now improving. God has a plan. If it wasn't for Him, seat belts and airbags my boyfriend and I would not be alive. It is beyond my understanding why that man crossed the yellow line and hit me head on. Was he intoxicated like the police report likes to suspect or did his sugar drop or heart decide to stop? All I know is there was no reaction time and it was meant to be. My spectra and his morgan were the only two vehicles on the road and God has given me that peace, that is how I know.
Every morning for about 5 weeks I woke up thinking about it and shocked that I am still alive. I found myself pinching myself throughout the day for 2 weeks because I couldn't believe it. I thought I was in a movie that I could just turn off but it was all real. The second day after the accident I woke up in a panic from pain and scared to death because I could barely move. My stomach still has some sore spots and there are scars that will be there for a while. Mentally, I won't be the same.
"Life is but a vapor" is a phrase I have heard and believed all my life. Now I know even more about its truth and how lucky I am. I am more appreciative, easy going and loving than I have been in quite some time. I also surround myself with family and friends more often.
Getting behind the wheel for the first time was overwhelming. I hated every inch of the Toyota Camry that was the rental car. I didn't want to say good-bye to my Kia Spectra. She was my first big girl car. I made the payments, took care of her and loved her. Many memories were made in my now totalled spectra. She died protecting me and my love, the media even covered how well she responded. I requested my license plate to be mailed to me and balled when I received it. I was blessed with an amazing car salesman at Carolina Kia. He lovingly hung in there with me. He tried to show me a Spectra and I warned him. I just stood beside of it and cried. He asked if I ever thought about a new car and got me into a brand new Forte. I love it but there is still that soft spot missing my Spectra. I will never forget her. I hope that with a little help from a friend that I will eventually climb back into one (just to ride) with few tears.
There are more blessings that come out of this "more than newsworthy" event that will help me get things a little more on track. I never suspected making the papers this way but I am alive to say how important airbags and seat belts are and, even more importantly, how well the Father takes care of us whether we think so at the time or not. I am God's girl and He has great plans for my life.
Thank you for reading. This is the first time I have put a majority of my feelings about this in writing. I cried several times while writing this but I know it is necessary to move on.
Be safe, buckle up, love your neighbors, friends and family. I love all of you.
~ Manda
A couple articles from the accident:
http://www.wwaytv3.com/2011/11/21/man-dies-after-crashing-classic-car-without-seat-belts
http://www.wect.com/story/16086552/traffic-fatality-at-carolina-beach-road-and-3rd-street
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